It is a common misconception that in order for someone to be transgender, they must be on hormones or looking into surgery. This pressure is harmful for people navigating their inner selves. Hormones and surgery are not for everyone. Both have risks and consequences. It is perfectly acceptable for people to choose to transition without taking these drastic measures.
Accept Your Body
If you are considering transition without hormones or surgery, there are some things to keep in mind. You must accept your body for what it is. There are ways to slightly alter it, for example female-to-male individuals can bind their breasts. However, it will never look completely like the opposite gender.
Secondary sex characteristics will also stay the same. Again, there are ways to change this somewhat, but nothing drastic will take place. You also must accept that there are uninformed people who will question your gender. Never let these ignorant comments get to you. This is easier said than done, but we cannot change other people.
Read Tips on Passing
It is important to do some research on how to pass. There are many ways for both female-to-male (FTM) and male-to-female (MTF) to pass as their true gender. This is done with prosthetics, clothing, hairstyle, and most importantly with body language.
While most transgender individuals do some of this naturally, years of trying to fit in with the rest of society can reprogram our natural tendencies. It can also help to start participating in activities we have always wanted to do, but never did because of traditional gender roles and expectations.
Choosing to Come Out
Most people choose to make others aware of their identity. This can help boost confidence and awareness, but it is not necessary. One of the benefits of choosing to transition without hormones and surgery is that you can be selective about who you come out to. Who you tell and who you do not tell is entirely up to you.
The biggest benefit of coming out is that people will see you for who you really are. You can asked to be called by a different name or to have the appropriate pronouns used. However, not everyone takes this sort of news well. Be aware that some people might not react the way you are hoping they will.
There are Options
Surgery and hormones are not necessary for transitioning. In fact, many transgender people live as their true gender without them. They can help people feel more comfortable in their bodies, but there are also risks that need to be considered. Take time to figure out what is right for you. No matter what you choose, be confident and true to who you are!
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